What several sources agree on
- This belongs to Reflectors: with no fixed centers, there's no steady inner signal telling you yes or no.
- The real hurdle is the pressure to answer fast. You're allowed to say you're taking your month.
- Going slow gives you a wider, more nuanced view than people who decide in a snap.
- Something can look obvious on Monday and shaky by Thursday. That swing is normal for you.
- A full Moon cycle runs a little over 29 days. What matters is letting one whole round go by.
How to use it
Write your question down. For a little over 29 days, come back to it now and then and note what you think, where you were and who with. Talk to a range of people. At the end of the month, reread your notes: a pattern usually shows.
Example
You're wondering whether to quit your gym. Week one: yes. Week two: no. By weeks three and four you notice you feel better on the days you skip it. The answer arrived on its own.
How to spot it on a chart
No center is defined. Every Reflector has this authority.